How many of us have begun a relationship to change somebody??
Well, has it worked?? Considering the typical statuses on Facebook...I'm guessing not. Why do we have the tendency to think we can fix people, that we can change them?? We have the best intentions at times...to give someone confidence or even to make them feel loved. We feel sorry for them! But trust me, Pity is not what they need. But no matter how we try, the fact is: People are who they are. They can't & won't change unless they want to. We spend all this time giving, caring, loving people who just use us; because we think, optimistically,... "One day they'll change." The best only & advice I can give is turn them over to God because He is the only one who can change them. Love them enough to trust them in God's hands.
But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, "With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible". Matthew 19:26
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